If your BES emails are working again, but you don't have a wireless synchronisation option for the Calendar, then you will need to get the guys who manage your BES to look into this.
As I mentioned before, they would be the best ones to help, as they would know how your BlackBerry should behave as they control it. Unfortunately, Vodafone or us other people who help out here would be shooting in the dark about your issue.
I must admit though that I am a little confused by your response. You state that you do not see the option to wireless sync the calendar, but then state that you are trying to tick it? Are you sure you are looking in the right place, as selecting the Desktop calendar under options should only show you if the wireless sync is available, whether you want reminders displayed, how what colour you would like the appointment to be and how many calendar entries you have? It should not behave as you describe (hence my confusion)
- select the Calendar icon from your home screen
- press the menu button on the keypad
- scroll down the menu and select Options
- you should now see a list of options, such as Calendar Display Options, conference calling, date and time (may vary depending on which OS you are running). Below that you will see the Accounts, listing which calendars are on your handset
You would find it so much easier to speak to your work IT department who manage your BES. They know how your BB should behave, they can physically look at your handset, and this is one of the things that they are paid for, after all!
Trust me, you will get this solved so much quicker through them, rather than through the eForum.
Cheers
